What if the Husband is a controlling, inconsiderate, Sexually abusive, self centered person and even after being told by wife and relentlessly trying to work on the marriage, refuses to see that he has done any wrong? Movies are movies and real life is real life!!!! There is no mistaking REAL LIFE!!!! We all know when the Love is gone and even the sound of the voice of the other annoys you ,.... it may be a sign its over!!!!